In past, the bride was applicable to give dowry (payment or property) to groom side…but in in this 21st century the groom will have to pay dowry for marriage with groom.
It’s a karma.
Why are boys not getting married and why is the age gap widening? There is a lengthy queue.
The girl’s attitude toward the wealthy boy will be somewhat positive since they will get married and secure the future. Is it possible for a middle-class girl to get along financially with a wealthy person? Levels of living?
However, marrying into a wealthy family does not ensure a stable marriage; consider wealthy couples who have divorced and whether or not they were mentally satisfied.
Probably the girl’s family question whether the boy have a good salary:
- Have his own house
- How many brother & sister
- If his brother has the separate house
- If the house is big
It is mandatory for certain girls to expect their future spouse to work a high-paying government position. Should we anticipate the same kind of commitment from the female side?No, girls have some claim to this right to request things in the modern world.
A very sad story that in India’s remote village where a person occupation is farming is been neglected for marriage because…..what is future in farming?
Another reason is Unemployment has led to a decline in boys getting married. The job market’s instability and competitiveness make it difficult for them to secure stable employment and support a family. Unemployment affects their financial stability, self-esteem, and societal expectations of being providers and breadwinners.
Unemployment contributes to feelings of inadequacy and hinders marriage due to the inability to fulfill traditional roles. Financial strain from joblessness intensifies relationship stress and conflicts, further discouraging marriage. Many boys avoid or postpone marriage until they achieve employment stability. Rectifying unemployment is vital to fostering a higher marriage rate among boys and encouraging them to start families.
It’s a grave reality in village that young farmers are been haunted by depression not getting married because of their farming occupation.